Becky & Lou
September 6, 2026
Becky & Lou
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Typical office romance... Lou and Becky first met in 2008 while working together on the IT Trading Systems team at Raymond James.
Then in 2011 (both newly single), they dated briefly — let’s just say they both needed some “debugging” time.
Life took them on different paths: Lou stayed at Raymond James while raising his boys, and Becky moved on to new career opportunities, traveling as often as she could while her daughter went off to college. They stayed friendly over the years and rarely ran into one another.
Fast forward 12 years: (2023)
Becky walks into Back Bar (anyone who knows Lou, knows Back Bar) — the same spot where they used to hang out with other co workers — and there’s Lou, as if no time had passed. Did Becky think to herself whether Lou might be there that night..? maybe....
Both of them single AGAIN, and now free from the day-to-day responsibilities of raising children, the timing couldn’t have been sweeter. A 3-hour catch-up conversation later, Lou booked a proper date for the next Sunday… and the spark continued.
When Lou and Becky 'officially' moved in together (June 2024), Bayou came with Lou — at least on the weeks he wasn’t with his mom.
Becky, previously convinced she wasn’t a “dog person,” quickly discovered that Bayou was impossible not to love. She planned her schedule around his visits, saved him a spot next to the couch and treated him like family. When he passed in February 2025, they felt the loss deeply. He remains a treasured part of their story.
After rekindling their romance, Lou knew he wanted forever with Becky.
On May 3rd, 2025, he pulled off the ultimate surprise: a private tour of the famous wine cellar at Bern’s Steak House in Tampa, arranged with their favorite sommelier, Dustin.
Surrounded by thousands of bottles of wine—each one with its own history—Lou added a new story to the cellar that day.
With a heartfelt proposal there in the cellar, Becky said yes. (how could she not?)
They celebrated with MORE wine, perfectly capping off a love story 14 years in the making—one that, like a great wine, only got better with time.
- Both Lou and Becky were born & raised in St. Pete
- Both born at St Anthony's Hospital (10 months apart)
- Both earned their MIS degree from Eckerd College in St. Pete (years apart)
- Both have an uncle named Barry
- Both worked for Raymond James & Associates
- Both lived on the same street (a couple blocks apart) for years while married to other people without having met yet
- Both love Kettle One vodka and red wine
JP has been my friend for as long as I can remember — the kind of childhood friend who grows into family. He’s stood by my side through every high, every low, and all the ridiculous moments in between. JP is the person I can tell anything to, no judgment, just loyalty, laughter, and honesty. I’m incredibly grateful to have him as one of my best men and even more grateful to have him in my life.
Bob and I go all the way back to childhood, and he has always been the guy who brings the energy — the kind of energy that seems to defy all known laws of sleep. Is he ever tired? If he is, I’ve never witnessed it. He’s hilarious, wildly accomplished in his career, and the person who can carry a conversation in any group, at any hour.
I admire the love and longevity he’s built in his marriage, and I’ve always looked up to the steady, thoughtful side behind all that humor. And then there’s Bob’s collection of “grown-up gadgets and adventures.” Let’s just say if it’s fun, fast, or flashy, he probably owns it — and probably in multiples.
Best of all, he shares everything generously with friends and family. Bob brings excitement wherever he goes, and I’m grateful to have him standing with me on my wedding day.
We went from coworkers to instant friends to basically family. She’s my sunshine-loving, advice-giving ride-or-die who somehow still puts up with me ignoring her advice. Couldn’t do this day without her.
We’ve been friends since we were 15, and she’s been my go-to for all things love and relationships ever since. She’s basically the queen of a rock-solid, loving marriage with David, and when I grow up, I want a relationship just like theirs. Couldn’t tie the knot without her wisdom (and brutal honesty) by my side.
** Kaitlin – My Daughter, My Ride or Die **
Not long ago, I stood by Kaitlin’s side as the Mother of the Bride—now she’s returning the favor. She’s my daughter, best friend, and the one person who can handle my chaos with grace (and maybe a little sarcasm). If anyone can keep me calm and fabulous, it’s her.
**Father of the Bride — My Dad**
This will be the first time my dad gets to walk me down the aisle. My first wedding at 20 was short and sweet — no aisle, no big moment — so I’m thrilled to finally give him this one. And at 80 years young, I feel incredibly lucky he’s still kicking and still moving faster than the rest of us can keep up with.
My dad is funny, loyal, and dedicated to his family in a way that shows up every single day. He’s at the gym daily (just to remind us he’s tougher than he looks), and if something makes it onto his to-do list, you better believe it’s getting done before the ink dries. He’s the one who keeps our family connected, coordinating, and showing up — and he makes it look effortless.
He’s already become such a father figure to Lou, especially since Lou lost his own dad a few years ago. Lou *occasionally* borrows Dad’s tools — just enough for Dad to keep mental inventory — and when Lou asked him for permission to marry me, Dad said yes… though I’m pretty sure he enjoyed adding a little suspense to the moment.
Sharing this walk with him means the world to me, and I couldn’t imagine anyone more special to be by my side as I start this new chapter.
