FAQs
I have a shellfish allergy—what should I do?
Please note it when you RSVP so we can alert the restaurant. Servers will also check for food allergies when taking entrée orders—we’ve got you covered.
We can’t make it — can we send a gift?
Your presence will be missed, but your generosity is not required. In lieu of gifts, we’d love contributions to our honeymoon fund as we plan a 2027 1 year anniversary/honeymoon getaway.
Thank you for your thoughtfulness!
Is there assigned seating?
Ceremony: Open seating (with a few reserved rows for family), so arrive early if you have your eye on a prime seat. Reception: Assigned tables. After cocktail hour and a half upstairs, check the seating chart before heading downstairs and find your spot.
Ceremony & Reception Location
Valet: Complimentary valet is available at The Urban Stillhouse (and highly encouraged—treat yourself).
If you initially valeted and decide to get a ride home, don’t forget to grab your keys first so vehicle pickup the next day is easy - The Urban Stillhouse is not open on Mondays.
Self Park: Offsite parking is also available about a half-block west—just ask the attendants to point you in the right direction.
What time should guests arrive?
Plan to arrive between 4:15 –4:30 PM. We’ll have refreshments waiting, so feel free to come a little early and settle in. The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 PM—fashionably late = noticeably late.
What should I wear?
Men: Suits or tuxes (any color)
Women: Floor-length dresses or gowns (just skip white—we’re saving that for one person)
Will there be food during cocktail hour and a half?
Yes! After the ceremony, you will be directed upstairs for cocktails and appetizers.
Meanwhile, the bridal party will be downstairs taking photos—think of it as cocktail hour and a half with a show.
What will the weather be like?
Feel free to check the forecast here.
That said, weather will not be a factor—both the ceremony and reception will take place indoors at the same location, so you can plan your outfit accordingly (and safely ignore Florida’s unpredictability).
Can I bring a plus one?
If a plus one has been included for you, your invitation envelope will reflect your guest’s name.
If your invitation does not include a guest and you would like to request one, please let us know as early as possible—we will do our best to accommodate, though space at The Urban Stillhouse is limited.